Blended families are becoming more common, with many people entering new relationships, marriages, or civil partnerships later in life, or ‘starting again’ and having more children with a new partner.

While these families bring joy and love, they also introduce unique legal and financial challenges that require careful planning. Without clear legal arrangements, your final wishes may not be carried out as expected, leading to unintended consequences for your loved ones.

Why estate planning is essential

Though it may be uncomfortable to plan for a time when you are not around to support your family, ensuring a solid estate plan offers peace of mind. Crucially, it can:

  • Prevent family arguments
  • Stop assets from falling into the wrong hands
  • Minimise inheritance tax liabilities
  • Avoid costly and time-consuming disputes

Despite the importance of estate planning, only 1 in 6 people have formalised an estate plan, and over a third haven’t drafted a will. And 1 in 5 people (22%) aren’t sure what a lasting power of attorney is.

Starting with a will

A properly drafted will is essential. Without one, the law dictates who inherits your estate, often prioritising your spouse or civil partner over children from previous relationships. Stepchildren are not automatically entitled to inherit under intestacy rules, meaning they may be left out entirely. By having a well-structured will, you ensure that everyone is provided for according to your intentions.

Setting up a trust

Trusts can be an effective way to safeguard your assets while ensuring fair distribution among your loved ones. A will trust, or life interest trust, allows your spouse, civil partner, or cohabitee to benefit from your assets during their lifetime, such as living in the family home or receiving income, while preserving the capital for your children in the future.

If you plan to include a cohabitee in your arrangements, it’s particularly important to seek expert legal and tax advice, as inheritance tax exemptions do not automatically apply to them.

Don’t delay on getting an LPA

Many people wrongly assume that your next of kin will be able to make decisions about your healthcare, or easily gain access to your finances, should you lose mental capacity. However, this is not the case. Only a nominated attorney using a Lasting Power of Attorney (LPA) document can do this.

Choosing the right attorneys is crucial, particularly in blended families where relationships may be sensitive. Without an LPA in place, your loved ones might face lengthy and expensive legal proceedings to gain the right to act on your behalf.

Open Conversations Matter

Estate planning doesn’t require unanimous agreement from all family members, but discussing your intentions can help set expectations and minimise surprises. Open communication fosters understanding and prevents future tensions.

Preventing Conflict

Inheritance disputes can arise, especially in complex family structures. Clear, legally documented wishes can help prevent misunderstandings and disagreements. Making fair, well-thought-out decisions, rather than trying to appease everyone, ensures clarity and reduces the likelihood of disputes.

When should you start estate planning?

Estate planning isn’t just for when you’re old and grey, it’s relevant for anyone who owns assets, has dependents, or runs a business. If any of the following apply to you, it’s time to consider putting plans in place:

  • You own property
  • You move in with a partner
  • You have assets to pass down
  • You have dependents
  • You run a business
  • You experience a life change

Can I do my own estate planning?

Navigating estate planning within a blended family can be complex, but with the right legal advice, it doesn’t have to be daunting. An Accredited Lifetime Lawyer can guide you through your options, helping you create a robust estate plan that protects the people who matter most.

How to start estate planning

Planning for your family’s future is not just about legal compliance, it’s about ensuring stability, financial security, and peace of mind for all involved. Seek legal advice now to create a well-structured estate plan that aligns with your blended family’s unique needs.
For more information, you can download our dedicated estate planning guide here.

We have launched a dedicated attorney affairs team to assist clients with managing their personal and financial affairs.

The newly-formed team is led by Tracy Rowden, a partner in the private client department who has more than 25 years’ experience. She is joined by chartered legal executive Angie Dodsworth, along with paralegals Kendall Sherwen and Hannah Tolley.

Together, they will oversee attorney affairs matters, including lasting power of attorney (LPA) applications where an individual’s capacity is in question.

Tracy said: “We understand that managing someone else’s financial affairs can be overwhelming, particularly when dealing with complex legal and administrative processes. It can be difficult for individuals to navigate these responsibilities alone, especially during emotionally-challenging times.

“Our team is here to provide reassurance and practical assistance, ensuring individuals receive the support they need to manage financial and personal matters efficiently. We pride ourselves on our compassionate approach and take the time to understand our clients’ unique situations so we can tailor our services to their specific needs.”

The launch of the team comes amid increasing awareness of the need for proactive financial and legal planning.

However, according to a survey of more than 1,000 people[i], only 13% have formalised an LPA – despite its importance in protecting an individual’s financial and personal affairs should they become unable to make decisions for themselves.

This highlights a significant gap and with a growing number of individuals now recognising the need to safeguard their future, Mayo Wynne Baxter aims to bridge the gap between legal provisions and practical implementation.

The team will provide support in two key areas. The attorney affairs service is designed for individuals who have appointed the firm’s partners as their attorneys for property and financial matters under an LPA or an enduring power of attorney (EPA). This service includes managing financial correspondence, handling tax affairs, overseeing property maintenance and arranging care services where necessary.

The attorney assistance service offers guidance and support to lay attorneys who have been appointed under an LPA or EPA but may require professional assistance. This service is structured to meet different levels of need, from an initial guidance meeting to help clients get started, to a starter service that establishes necessary financial and legal structures, and a complete management option for those who require ongoing support.

[i] The research was conducted by Censuswide on behalf of Mayo Wynne Baxter with 1,000 people with a parent aged 60 or over. Censuswide abides by and employs members of the Market Research Society, which is based on the ESOMAR principles, and is a member of The British Polling Council.

 

[1] The research was conducted by Censuswide on behalf of Mayo Wynne Baxter with 1,000 people with a parent aged 60 or over. Censuswide abides by and employs members of the Market Research Society, which is based on the ESOMAR principles, and is a member of The British Polling Council.

When someone is appointed as a Deputy by the Court of Protection, they are given the responsibility of making decisions for a person (P) who cannot make decisions for themselves. A key area of focus is giving gifts, and deputies must understand the legal rules and limits around this.

What is a “gift”?

The Office of the Public Guardian (OPG) considers gifting to cover a wide range of circumstances. As well as the traditional understanding of a gift, this includes:

  • An interest-free loan from P’s funds
  • Selling a property for less than its true value
  • Living rent-free or at a ‘family and friends’ rate in P’s property.

There are lots of other decisions which may fall under the OPG’s definition of a gift.

Key Guidelines for Deputies:

The general rule is that Deputies are not allowed to make gifts from P’s estate, although a Deputyship Order will typically include a provision allowing gifts if:

  • Made on a customary occasion to a person related or connected with P.
  • A gift to a charity which P might have been expected to make.
  • The value of the gift is not unreasonable.

What is a reasonable gift?

To determine what is a “reasonable gift,” you must carefully assess P’s finances. Gifts should not affect their ability to pay for future care and must be affordable. The amount should reflect what P would have given before losing capacity, though this may vary for each individual.

If a gift exceeds these limits, the attorney must seek approval from the Court of Protection before proceeding.

Approval from the Court of Protection

In certain situations, deputies must seek prior approval from the Court of Protection before making substantial gifts or gifting above a certain value. This is particularly important when the gifts may significantly impact P’s estate or affect their ability to pay for care needs in the future.

What happens if a Deputy gives a gift without proper authority?

If you give a large gift to someone or use P’s money for your own gift, several things could happen:

  • The Office of Public Guardian (OPG) may investigate.
  • You may be asked to repay the money or return the gift.
  • The Court of Protection may be asked to approve the gift after the fact.
  • You could be removed as Deputy.
  • You may be required to cover any costs incurred.

Practical Steps for Deputies When Gifting

If you are a Deputy responsible for managing the finances of someone who lacks capacity, we would always advise you to:

  1. Review the Individual’s Preferences: If possible, consider the person’s past gifting behaviour. Would they typically make such gifts? Is there a family tradition of gifting for special occasions? This helps ensure that gifts are consistent with their values and preferences.
  2. Document Everything: Keep detailed records of any gifts made, including the rationale for the gift, the recipient, and the amount. This will help you demonstrate that the gifting is in the person’s best interests if the decision is ever questioned.
  3. Seek Court Approval When Necessary: If you are considering making a substantial gift, especially one that could impact the person’s ability to pay for care, it is essential to seek prior approval from the Court of Protection. This will protect you from any future challenges.
  4. Be Transparent: If questioned, you should be able to provide a clear and reasoned explanation of why the gift was made and how it benefits the individual. Always act in the person’s best interests and avoid any appearance of self-interest.

As a Deputy, it’s important to act in the person’s best interests and follow legal rules on gifting to protect both the individual and yourself from potential legal issues.

If you are a Deputy who would like advice on gifting, please do not hesitate to contact our Deputyship Team.